CAREER IS MORE THAN JUST A JOB
Since we have the power to
choose our experience, we also need to accept responsibility for this. Perhaps
not that everything that comes our way is a direct result of our own thinking
(though some might say it is) but what we attract into our life is, largely, a
reflection of our thinking. Much of this occurs on a subconscious level, but
the subconscious takes its lead from the thinking mind, so changing our
thoughts will change our world, and we are responsible for this.
Our behavior is a natural outcome of our mental
images, and so we are responsible for our behavior too, and also for the
behavior we tolerate in others. If we allow others to ride roughshod over us,
then we have ourselves to blame.
Career
is more than just a job. There are many technique of systematic career decision
making:
1) Define the decision
2) Identify all choice to be
considered
3) Gather information on each option
4) Evaluate the potential outcome of
each option
5) Make a selection of the most
appropriate option
success
is as simple as being able to pay the bills with a little left over, while
others define it as making millions of dollars.
Once
you understand where it is that you want to go, it's time to plan how to get
there.
Success is about
getting all that you wanted to have. It's finding that you have achieved your
goals or fulfilled your plans and it's waking up in the morning feeling
victorious rather than feeling defeated.
The feelings
success brings will make you walk proudly in the streets with your head up high
while being happy and satisfied.
Contrary to common
beliefs, there are no successful
or unsuccessful people but instead there are people who have the potential to
succeed and who do things that helps them realize this potential and there are
people with the same potential who don’t do those things.
The only thing you
need to do to succeed is to do exactly what successful people did. When you go
through all of the information below you will acquire the mentality of a
successful person and this will help you reach success.
If you really want
to be successful then you should have a solid understanding of certain concepts
that can limit your potential and that can make you unsuccessful.
If you have
already been through the previous guides and have prepared your toolkit then
it's time to know how the road to success looks like
so that you don't find unexpected surprises.
The road to
success will probably be full of rejection, pain, hard work, disappointment as well as many
other discouraging things but when you reach its end you will feel really happy
and victorious.
You will feel
proud of yourself for overcoming all of these obstacles and for reaching your
goals in spite of the many things that stood in your way. You will be
tremendously happy and satisfied and you will experience the feelings described
at the beginning of this article. In short, you will receive the reward of
being successful.
Don’t Let Fear Stop You
Whenever we grow, there is fear. Whenever we do
something new, there is fear. Whenever we push ourselves to new heights or
expand our comfort zone, there is fear. This is the nature of life. Life is
always moving – either we are moving forward, growing, or we are moving back,
dying. We have a choice – we can either grow or we can die. Growth and fear go
hand in hand. It’s part of a package, and if we fail to embrace the whole
package, we will die.
Don’t fear failure – failure is inevitable and
necessary. Look at the life of any successful person and you will see a litany
of failure. This failure is the foundation of success, so long as we learn from
it.
Don’t fear other people. They are as vulnerable
and as beautiful as you are – only sometimes they lash out in various ways to
protect themselves. Everyone is doing their best, so be gentle on other people
and don’t be scared of them.
When you face your fears, they will vanish like
smoke.
Never Stop Learning
I have come to the conclusion that learning is the fundamental activity in a
successful and purposeful life. If we fail to learn, we fail to grow, and this
means that we die. Life gives us endless opportunities to learn, and the more
difficult the situation, the more we are likely to learn.
We can learn from other people, especially difficult ones – they are like
angels sent from heaven to teach us about ourselves. We can learn from the
things happening around us. And most of all, we can learn by watching
ourselves, seeing how we react and reflecting deeply on what moves us.
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